Moving House With Children
Adults are better equipped to deal with life situations such as moving. In many cases, it is easy to forget the impact that moving has on children. Whether you are moving to a new neighborhood or a new state, moving can have lasting implications on children. It important that parents take the time that is needed to make sure that children understand what is going on. Children will need some time for adjusting. During this period of time, it is imperative that parents give children the attention they need.
Infants and Toddlers
Moving is easiest on infants and toddlers. This is because they haven’t reached an age where they are attached to people and environments outside their family. At this age, children have the best opportunity for adapting to the new environment. You may notice that infants and toddlers pick up on stress and anxiety from adults and sibling around them. This can cause them to become particularly fussy and in need of extra attention. You may also notice that rules need to be taught all over again once you are settled into the new house. Make sure that you are giving your child the attention that is needed. Play with your child during breaks and make sure to maintain your normal routine as much as possible.
Preschoolers
At this age, children only grasp a part of the moving process. They may express excitement over moving to a new place. However, preschool aged children tend to think that their playmates and neighbors will be moving with them. It will be difficult transitioning your child to understand that only the household will be making the move. You should make sure to explain to your child what is going on during the move process. Give reasons for what you are doing so that your child will better grasp the concept of moving. Of course, thing won’t be perfectly clear to a child this age, but attempting to explain what is going on will help a great deal.
School-Age Children
School-age children are most likely to be excited about moving. They will be glad to be involved the process of scoping out the new neighborhood and picking out a house. You will find that their enthusiasm about moving helps you get a lot of the tasks done in the moving process. Children this age understand that they will be moving away from their neighbors and friends. They do not understand, however, the emotional impact this will have until after the move has been made. A farewell party will help ease the pain of moving with school aged children. Take plenty of pictures at the party so your child will be able to remember his or her friends.
Teenagers
Undoubtedly, teenagers have the most difficult time in moving. Their relationships are far more developed and the emotional effects of moving are realized right away. Don’t postpone telling your teen about the move. It is best to tell him or her right away since it takes time to end relationships and say goodbye. Your teenager will need space, so be sure to give as much space that is needed. Pay close attention to your teen’s feelings. Avoid lecturing or getting defensive about what your child is feeling.
No matter what age your child is, there will be some implications to moving. Be patient and understanding with your children to make the move as easy as possible for them.
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